What do others say about luk…
You’re open and genuine, patient and very easy-going. You are very sensitive and you quickly notice what is of importance.
L.
You recognize the other person’s smallest efforts and name them. I feel you actually take the time for things that are important, without seeming to ask a lot. In taking the time, I feel listened to, and experience space and peace to discuss matters. You are a support figure for me and a solid foundation with whom I can openly discuss things. You name the phenomenons that are present and give a nice touch to them, making me feel valued. I feel I can share things witch confidence.
B.
You’re empathic, you can assess the other person’s points of view and stay close to yourelf. This feels very safe and solid.
F.
I find that I can turn to you, Luk, with big but also small things. You have the ability of genuine listening and are very disarming, without judgment. You have a crazy power of always finding something good in people and encourage them. I love your creative and spontaneous approach to situations. I always feel very welcome!
F.
What attracts me in you, is your honesty and sincerity. You seem to have great people skills and know how to respond well and adjusted to the situation? You show great openness and adaptability without losing your individuality. Your energy and humor are contagious. You are very empathetic and always there with your listening ears, in heaviness and lightheartedness. It is nice to notice how in the contact you also show yourself and your own feelings and experience. I feel in the interaction a great respect. You dare to go to the limits in a quest.
I.
With you I don’t have to have a plan, everything is negotiable, and I can do what feels right. I know that I can tell you anything. That you will listen without judgment and with an open mind. I can also find peace with you. You don’t interrupt a conversation, I feel heard and understood. It’s easy to be fully in the moment: seeing where the situation takes us and what it brings. I feel your genuine presence and commitment. I feel challenged, but in a safe way. I can show my fears, knowing that they will be supported.
M.
I appreciate in you the courage to search, to question and to allow doubt. I feel that you do not always have an opinion ready immediately, but form it in the contact with respect for the input of the other. You can listen and be silent: with you sharing a silence does not feel uncomfortable, and therefore enjoyable.
I.
What comes to mind is that I find you to have an ‘old soul’ I can be fully myself with you, I feel harmony and warmth, and no judgment. I enjoy the way you can approach a situation with wondering. I find you very disarming, and notice that you have a nice balance in ‘firmness, decisiveness and determination to go in new directions’ on the one hand, and at the same time also allow the ‘doubting, vulnerable, uncertain and searching’. With you I can share moments of ‘being away’, I can and may be even an ‘alien’ and it it is easy just to ‘be’ together, also in silence.
C.
luk helsen 